Ourselves or others
It is stated that the good things we think, we will do for our loved ones, may turn out to harm them. Because If we think of others as we are, we will give them what we like. However, if we think of others as they are, we will do or give what they like. In line with this, there will be less or no problem as a phrase says: “As you like sir…………” Believe it or not, if we often say “As you like…” and act accordingly, we no longer have a problem with others.